Revenge Pornography: An Opinion

     Women, from infants to senior citizens, I love'em. You know why? Because they're honest, gentle, loving, understanding...I could on, and, usually, they set the bar high for the rest of us. The rest of us being men, mostly, but some women need that bar set high too. Women pay for those good qualities, though, because they also want to believe and trust those closest to them, and that's not too much to ask.
     Women want to trust and believe so bad that, sorry to say, gulliblitis sometimes sets in. And once that trust-bond is broken, good luck ever getting it repaired.
     This subject I happened upon by chance. It was Wednesday, I believe, January 30, 2013. I was eating breakfast later than usual and sometimes turn on the television if I don't have anything to read. I was still eating when "Anderson Live" came on. Normally I shut it off because by nine in the morning I should already be working on something productive, but right away they mentioned "Revenge Pornography" and named the two young ladies who would be guests. Sounded interesting. I decided to watch.
     It seems 'Revenge Pornography' is a site expressly in existence for angry lovers to upload nude pictures of their ex-girlfriends or wives.
     Before I go any further, ladies, I'm going to have to say, "If some really cute--and obviously perverted--young guy wants you to undress and pose in the nude for him so he can photograph you, with a digital camera no less, or any camera, then, my dear, you are "asking" for trouble." Sure, he says he loves you, and will love you forever. I hate to tell you, but guys say things like that a lot, to get what they want, and if they are really cute they will get what they want.

Photo has nothing to do with this post. I know it looks red, but the name of this lovely native grass is Little Blue Stem.

      Back to "Anderson Live."
     The first girl to speak was a cute blonde. She said she had broken up with her boyfriend and he uploaded her nude pictures to this unholy website. She's unhappy about that. I don't blame her. She's also suing, both the webmaster and her boyfriend (or ex-boyfriend, I suppose, although people have been known to forgive for much worse travesties.) Good luck with that, sweetie, but what about their first amendment rights? You gave up your right to privacy by agreeing to those pictures.
     The other girl was a serious-looking brunette. Now get this, folks, she doesn't know who uploaded the pictures. The first thing to pop into my mind is, well, how many guys is she taking her clothes off for? She also mentioned that some of the photos were for something like diet or exercise, I don't remember for sure what, exactly. But, again, who did the photography? It kind of sounded like she couldn't exactly do her own, so, somebody else was involved. Some other guy? Another woman perhaps? Anyway, she doesn't know who did it. Yet she's mad about it. I don't feel sorry for her.
     I kind of feel sorry for the blonde, she seemed like a nice--but naive--girl, but not the brunette.
     OK, I accept that times have changed.
     Today even toddlers are dressing sexy, having their ears pierced, and are wearing makeup. By the time a girl is six she better be through playing with dolls, and if she's really cute she better be dieting so that she can pose for advertisements and/or beauty contests. Are these little girls thinking of these things all by themselves, and asking for these grownup things? I doubt it. In most cases I suspect it's the mothers pushing their little girls to grow up and make them proud, or maybe the mom wants her little daughter to succeed at things she, herself, failed at. And later, intense peer pressure will take over. So, at fourteen a little girl is dressing really provocatively, at fifteen she's dating, and at sixteen she's pregnant.
     So I got a little off the track there. I'm just saying almost anything goes these days.
At the end, you are probably dying to know if, after seeing the "Anderson Live" show, did I immediately go to that website and take a look at those two girls? No, I didn't. I don't look at internet pornography. Two reasons: One, I have no doubt it would be addictive. Two, I'm pretty sure many of the girls are not there by choice; they get into it and then are trapped; also some maybe do it once and then are forever sorry about it.     Anyway, there's plenty of risque action to observe on Facebook.

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